Wednesday, 15 July 2015

Obsession or coincidence?

I don't know why it's taken me that long to write this up but I knew the moment it satrted happening that I should :D And like one of my friends said when I showed the messages to her: "It's been going on for half a year? really?". The time just flew by and even I was shocked wow yeah, it has indeed been that long... :D someone was seriously obsessed.

So one day I got a message from a totally random guy and since I am how I am and don't really care for talking to strangers :D I answered very tentatively and in the end just blatantly ignored everything. That didn't stop him though and soon his "friend" started messaging me and then when I ignored him as well another guy tried his luck... I've never in my life had anything like this before and haven't had randomers messaging me since... And when I say totally random guy I mean not even one mutual friend although they claim to be in Aber etc. When I looked at their profiles they all seemed to be done recently and just had shirtless photos of them added recently and some statuses :D  no new ones though and no other activity, so I thought they were fake profiles tbh :D but who/why would suddenly be so obsessed to start talking to me under fake profiles? :D

I'm laughing when reading those back so I'lll copy them here :) My text is in italic and yes they are mainly monologues :D

1st guy 

  • I canselled add now. (he had added me as a friend but I didn't accept obvs)
  • ok, i dont know who you are so i didnt accept
  • I jus recognised you
  • Re ad ??
  • wil yo accept?
  • why?
  • Jus I recognise you. So I add you
  • K u dont want to chat then?
  • How are you
  • Oh we'll forget it then your loss really. I want bother you again. Se you arond
  • Sorry I thouht you were sum1 else. I jus saw your picture and remembed talking to you cuple of times. No offense meant
  • Se your on rugby pge. Do you play..? émoticône smile think that how I knew you actually.
  • I did play a bit last year, but I'm not in Aber anymore, I seriously doubt we know each other
  • cool, where u now then? defintly spoke to you tho
  • In France now
  • Cool why
  • U stopped talkin again
  • I do not spend every minute of my day on facebook
  • Kk why u in France? Like it.
  • Tbh u don't seem really as if u want to talk.
  • Bye then. Will block you.
  • ok
  • no chat so thats why
  • ok
  • was only being friendly
  • if you got a pic sent las nite? sorry ma mate was drunk
  • nevermind
  • wot the point I only apoligized
  • nice picture : ) bit flirty (that's my profile pic he's referring to now)
  • Ok u win.jus surprised cos every girl chats when they see my pictuers (the abs!!!!!!)
  • hav you reortd me to face book at all?
  • shoulnt have messaged you on here, the missus caught me goin wiv other girls from here. she read al my msges. not bothered about her. out tonight then??
  • ok im cureous. why wont you have a convasation with me. that's how you get to no ppl. pls replie
  • block me now then please?
  • im just suprised that you wont talk but yet you wont block me either, so do maybe we culd chat? if not pls say,im not tryin to be a creep. so how you doing?
  • thats it forget it. no need to be so rude n hardhearted to ppl, I pity the next guy if this is how you treat them. sorry to be blunt. im blockin yo now.bye
  • im sorry I shoulnt have been so blunt, but I thought u would have guessed I was keen to talk to yiu for a reason, if u wernt interested in that way u sould of said.
  • ??
  • hows france? miss aber?
  • did you get my question?/
  • I don't like not being answered
  • nice picture : ) don't ignor me
  • at least you read my message this time. its something all id like now is a reply from you


2nd guy

  • Hi, not sure if you remember me but I wanted to talk to you about what's been going down with my mate Dan (2nd guy). He showed me his messages before, and I thought I'd tell you, he got autism and doesn't mean any harm, but I've told him to block you and to leave alone.
  • Hi, I'm pretty sure I don't know either of you, but no worries
  • thanks, maybe not, I'm 3rd year now but I was in Germany for a year before that.
  • oh also please let me know if it happens again? émoticône smile
  • will do
  • Thanks émoticône smile your not the only one , and he may get into trouble if he carries on émoticône frown
  • should I add you so its easier for you to let me know if anything happens? émoticône smile
  • anything else?
  • Merry Christmas émoticône smile I remember you from halls by the way.
  • Merry Christmas to you too. Which halls?
  • Saw you in cwrt mawre
  • lol you obvs don't
  • sorry that isn't meant for you, sure that's not your sort of thing. (he sent me a picture of model in lingerie from zoo website :D)
  • dan is right you do ignore people
  • shared your picture, ill share some of mine later on yours
  • who are you?
  • rob 1st year
  • do i know you?
  • sure you do?
  • nope
  • want to chat then?
  • why?
  • have some fun?
  • why?
  • Why not
  • how bored are you? I do not have time to chat for fun with random people
  • Bored
  • cool story bro, so glad we had this chat
  • So no then
  • obviously
  • Why obviously
  • fine. its true what people say, you are unpleasant
  • sadly even friends talk about people, anyway I wont bother you again.
  • that wasn't my place to say, hope I haven't caused trouble with you and your mates.
  • ?
  • you block me and then expect an answer?
  • sorry but yeah
  • and what's the question?
  • did i upset you? and i guess you dont want conversation?
  • no'
  • Fair enough, but I shouldn't have told you, it wasn't my place to, besides the comments were made a couple of months ago now on a night out, not to me though, you know what girls are like when they are bitching about people. no offense meant on my part. bye
  • haha, I must say I'm a bit honoured that someone feels the need to talk about me, doubt that they're my friends though
  • fiesty
  • imn veryy drunk..coupld comee ovr?u wan discree? fun
  • you have no idea who or where i am, have you?
  • ye I ahve n that ms want for you, i wouldnt go near you
  • just to let you know my mate sendin random crap to spotted about the random girls in his inbox hes pretty drunk.
  • well I warned everyone. bye
  • it could have been worth your time reading these.
  • got your name on too, not sure if they publish names though.it was meant as a laugh
  • you really are rude! I was only warning you that's all.
  • enjoy being on spotted then
  • do you read anything?
  • ill persist lol
  • a reply woulnt hurt you?
  • bit funny?
  • hi
  • not working this is it?
  • hi
  • fuck it, your no good for what we looking for. sorry for the hasstle
  • unless you are discreet??
  • ?????
  • are you willing to listen to an explanation?
  • ok thing is me and this guy kind of see each other occasionally and we use this and grindr to meet others to join us if you get what I mean. we are both 100% clean and always totally discreet. so sorry to have been a pain, its obvs not too ask the question straight out, its not like grindr on here. so that's it sorry obvs not your thing
  • least read
  • ?? quicker if you replied!!!!!!
  • then ill block you if you want
  • have the read, then ill block.
  • waiting
  • hello
  • why don't we stop playing games?
  • hello Jasmine, will you say somethibg
  • lets sort this out/
  • ok thing is me and this guy kind of see each other occasionally and we use this and grindr to meet others to join us if you get what I mean. we are both 100% clean and always totally discreet. so sorry to have been a pain, its obvs not too ask the question straight out, its not like grindr on here. so that's it sorry obvs not your thing
  • finally!
  • so do you answer?
  • as you've now read my message, can you be polite and reply back.
3rd guy
  • hello
  • think I had you on my list before
  • nope
  • ok , hard to know when you got over 1000 friends, I just added loads from my course etc
  • BOO
  • how are you?
  • hey how are you? hope you don't think im a creep?
  • I was wondering if we could chat at all? give me a reply émoticône smile
  • I really don't have any time on my hands at all
  • im sure you could find a bit of time?
  • would a picture help?
  • hey give me a heads up
  • how do you know me again?
  • thought you were on my friends before
  • I wasnt
  • ok then cool I didn't send the pic then if that's the case
  • ok
  • you would prob find it a bit weird if I did
  • but up to you émoticône smile
  • no thanks
  • you sure?
  • yes
  • ok
  • msg me if you change your mind, got a bet on seeing how many girls actually accept!
  • honestly its only a laugh, i send, you rate it andd then forgotten about
  • How long is this bet going on for?
  • i dont know.. few days probs why??
  • You've been messaging me for a month now
  • ah ok that wasnt the bet then though, but as you were in my inbox
  • So do you message all your 1000 friends like this?
  • no just started a silly bet
  • On the 17th April?
  • maybe
  • Maybe...
  • maybe you want me to send a pic??
  • No
  • damn
  • sorry if you took any offence émoticône smile, but really all you had to do was delete the message if you are that hung up over it.its only meant as a bit of a laugh. émoticône smile
  • and no i just thought at first id say hi to you
  • sorry ok, it was honestly a laugh, was it really a big deal for you
  • what did you think i was going to send?? just curious, im losing anyway

And then the best thing happened: apparently the girlfriend of guy number 2 messaged me :)

  • has something ever happened between you and the guy im seeing?
  • ?
  • can you talk to me please
  • ?
  • guilty then
  • ??????????
  • ROB
  • stay away from other peoples men in future,
  • you have not even read my message yet?


And then as suddenly as it started it ended a whole 7 months later :D

Fun times :)

The question remains though... is it 4 different people who all at the same time when messaging me happened to create a new profile they later never updated or is one person behind all of these? :D quite sad if the latter proves to be the right answer :D

Ttyl ;)
Jazzz...








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